In Memoriam

 In memoriam


As the eldest daughter in-law, I would feel incomplete if I do not pen down and testify about my beloved Ano's(Mother-in-law) life .

A remarkable woman who fondly loved children and selflessly gave to everyone. 

Her  battle with congestive heart disease for over a decade ended on May 10, 2021. She was only my mother-in-law for a short five years one month.  And in this short journey, she just owned me like her daughter. She never called me by name.  

She taught us that nomatter how hard life maybe on you, smile it away.

Rishon has been asking us where his 'atsu' has gone. I told him, 'atsu' is with Jesus now. 

He is too young to express his emotions nor do he understands the loss but he is searching for you to whisper "noodles" in your ears. I remember how after his whispers, you would sneak in his aunt's noodles box and allow him. 

Yet, this little man did sum up saying that you are now with Jesus up in the clouds.

The way you called 'nongongo' to our two boys still keeps resounding in my ears.

I’m going to try my durnetest to make sure each of your grandson hears stories about who you were and what you liked and how much you loved each of them.

Your life taught us so many beautiful lessons of 'Endurance and selfless Love'

We are rest assured in the Lord that you are now peacefully and comfortably at rest beside angles.

Fare well...Ano until the day we meet again.

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