Waffles and Spaghetti

 

Men are like waffles and women are like spaghetti

Take a close look at a waffle; it is just a collection of boxes separated by walls.

 The boxes are separated distinctly from each other and make a convenient holding place.

This is typically how men divide thoughts and process life into boxes that have rooms for one issue and one issue only. They live in one box at a time and one box only.

When he is at work, he is at work. When he is watching Tv, he is simply watching TV.

While women in contrast to men’s waffle-like approach, process life more like a plate of spaghetti

Like spaghettis, there are lots of individual noodles that all touch one another, if one noodle is to be followed, we might intersect a lot more other noodles or we might even switch to another noodle seamlessly.

This is why women are great at multi-tasking than men. She really can be on the phone and make a shopping list at the same time. She can prepare meal while work on the plans for tomorrow and also close the door with her foot as she holds the dinner plates.

That is just a wild example of explaining the plain truth of the difference between men and women. 

Despite the difference, Tarzan and Jane found a way to swing gracefully through the trees together.

The sooner we learn how to make this magic happen for us.

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