The Mirage of Perfection

 In this fast-moving world, the quiet heaviness of seasonal depression can sometimes settle into our hearts before we even notice. We find ourselves feeling drained, distant, and disconnected even from God. And when that happens, our first instinct is often to withdraw from everything and everyone. We stop reading Scripture, our prayers grow faint, and we drift from fellowship. Somewhere deep inside, a small voice whispers that we must look perfect before we return to God.

That’s the mirage of perfection : the lie that makes us believe that our flaws disqualify us from His love. But nothing could be further from the truth.

God never asked us to be flawless . He simply asks us to come. To bring our fears, failures, and broken hearts to Him. He already knows our weaknesses, every single one and still calls us His own. Our imperfections don’t drive Him away; they draw Him closer. It’s in our weakness that His strength is revealed.

The real invitation of faith begins when we stumble. That’s when He whispers, “Come back to Me. Don’t hide.”

The enemy will keep throwing that mirage of perfection our way, trying to convince us that we need to appear stronger, better, more spiritual than we really are. But the truth is simple: we are loved, right here, right now in all our mess and imperfection.

And yes, I will forget this truth at times. I’ll fall into striving, I’ll chase the illusion of perfection again. But when I do, I pray that I’ll remember these words that I’ll run back to grace and continue my perfectly imperfect walk with God.

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