Grace Was Never for the Perfect

 The most exhausting role I've ever played? Being a pastor's wife, carrying the weight of expectations to always have it all together.

Because I've never believed in pretending to be something I am not, especially when it comes to building genuine relationships- with God and in every community we are called to.

This Holy Week, as I was reflecting, I felt led to speak about an uncomfortable truth, one many would rather avoid.

When Christ died on the cross and gave us grace, it was for people like the thief beside Him: a man who acknowledged his imperfection and simply asked to be saved.

Yet we live in a society that places high expectations on the people we look up to especially those involved in church ministry or leaders . In families like mine, even the wife and children are expected to be perfect.

But the truth is even a pastor is not perfect. He is human.

Perfection is an illusion, a mirage that keeps us from being true to God.

Grace was never meant for the perfect.

It is for the broken, the weary, the flawed, the imperfect people like you and me.

No mistake or bad choices of yours make you unworthy of seeking forgiveness.

If you truly confess your sins, you will be forgiven. (1 John 1:9)

And that promise is for all of us.

This Easter, let us renew our hearts ...

to heal if we are broken,

to forgive where we have held back,

to hope where we have lost it,

and to remind ourselves that

we are imperfect people,

made whole by the grace of Jesus Christ.

And maybe that is where grace meets us best not in perfection, but in honesty.

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