Beautiful chaos

There's a life in future with photos of little faces in the frames before our eyes. 
Glass frames placed in the reach of little arms because they aren't any, mugs daringly sitting at the edge.
There's a free calendar in my diary that isn't packed with reading time,music lessons, swimming lessons and muddy sports shoes.
There's a house that's finally clean and spotless and we aren't stepping on legos or breaking our back by the cars tucked beneath the bedsheets.
There's a coffee that's warm, and my body will be my own.
And we'll get to know each other well for the third time, before them, with them, and then when only two slip-on will stay at the door.
There's a clean car with no high-pitched sound and endless questions from the back seat
There's a dinner date with no curfew, and my sister's no longer needed to babysitting, a freedom that feels kind of heavy in the heart.
There's a life in the future, that's coming for us everyday .
So let's get swept up in this beautiful chaos infront of our eyes.
Let's make the future wait for us a little longer.
Because I love this life with you so much, this one right now

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